Monday, October 30, 2006

Mehey. today i have a day off to catch up on tons of homework i have been putting off, but i am taking a break and writing on this thing. so...nothing much fun to report. its gorgeous outside today. i guess most of you know that anyway. ok, question. i am trying to figure out if one of my friends is gay. but i dont want to start talking about it in case he has access to my blog. can anyone access your blog? or can you decide? anyway, maybe i wont talk about it, i dont want to offend anyone. its just that...he has a pink cell phone. and he's not a punk that likes pink, and he never talks about girls (he's 21) . and he's in nursing, and drives a yellow hatchback and likes techno music. he's got an earring and a tongue ring. does that mean anything?
anyway. your thoughts. he doesnt have a lisp or anything, and hes really nice. he's got a black belt in karate. or tae kwon doe or someting.
i suppose its not that important.
alright.
well other than that...not much on my mind. question number two: is this assertive or rude: last night at work i called a girl on the fact that i am frusterated with her becuase she will never do anybody else any favours but expects everyone (me) to pull the strings for her when she wants to leave early etc. its happened about 3 times, and last night it happened again, so i told her i didnt think it was fair that its only a one way street with her and she doesnt reciprocate. i was really proud of myself for being gutsy, but .... i dont know i think she's pissed. well. thats my life.
love you guys
jamie

9 Comments:

Blogger Kath said...

Thanks for the package Jamie! Woohoo! It was a nice suprize for me, and i got it when I was on the phone with mom and dad!

anhoo, my only advice, don't write anything on your blog that if the person you are writing about finds out, you would be embarrassed. I think you can set your blog to view only by certain people, but i'm not sure...it will be in the settings somewhere.

12:01 AM  
Blogger Kath said...

...and, does it matter if someone is gay or not (other than the issue of right and wrong behaviours, based on Christian beliefs)? I always wonder why people NEED to "come out". Who cares! No one gets all thier loved ones togehter and says, "Family, Friends, I am straight! I am in love with a boy and we might be together for a long time, deal with it." I sometimes find it strange the things people turn into huge deals. I had a gay friend and he never talked about it, like the way striaght people don't really talk about their strightness, only that him and his boyfriend were doing this or that this weekend or whatever, but it was never a "thing". I actually only found out he was gay through casual conversations. But this guy in your post fits some sterotypes, haha. Everyone says not to generalize, but generalizations are generally true.

12:26 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Uh Hello! I posted a comment on your very first blog, so there, jerk yourself. Poo bum. Don't get all hostile about getting comments, settle down. Anyways, that's all I have to say about that. So you and Paul are leaving on the 30th eh? Well why didn't you ask me first? Jeepers, well you better make sure that those two days we're both around are reserved just for us. Oh yeah and David is going to be living in Abbotsford for the next year, he may even be getting married, crazy hey? Just thought I'd tell you that cause then you guys can be his friend while he's out there. Kay peace out. Oh yeah and email me your phone number, like I said in my first comment...

7:17 PM  
Blogger Heidi said...

1. He's probably gay, and unlike Kath, I think it's very important that you find out.

2. I think it's wicked that you said something to that girl. I tend to be the "say something" kind of person but when I do I also tend to be the "regret it after" kind of person. Good on you. I love it when people say what they think!

11:24 AM  
Blogger Bonnie said...

Hey, so sorry this week didn't work out for having all you guys over but I was thinking perhaps, next week...maybe Wednesday around 7....what do you think?

2:00 PM  
Blogger Jen said...

jame, i was reading a research article today in an attempt to prepare for a seminar tomorrow. i couldn't concentrate though. you know why? cuz I was paying more attention to the greater or less than signs. i was confused. my article said <72 which I think, would mean less than 72 right? cuz if it was pointing ">" this way instead...it would want to eat the other number which should be bigger, which is why it wants to eat it. yum, more calories.

5:04 PM  
Blogger Kath said...

hhahaa, jen! I love you! I have no idea what <> they mean, I always have to pretend they are crocodiles. haheheee. And I have no idea how I would solve that problem...I never did get the >< signs.

10:22 PM  
Blogger Kath said...

Yeah, like heidi says, good on ya! I think people let things go too often and get walked over because no one says anything. I guess you gotta choose your battles. I have also said things I end up regretting later, so when you do say something just make sure you wont regret it!

10:24 PM  
Blogger jamie said...

greater than less than signs are lame!!

10:05 PM  

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